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Phone Sex Equals Safe Sex

Filed under: phone sex — Abby at 3:23 pm on Friday, August 8, 2008

Moaning, sweating, teasing and incredible orgasms… over the phone! With the right phone sex partner masturbating jumps to a brand new level of satisfaction. You connect with a real live person (vs. porn or mags) and as the client you pretty much know that the topic of conversation will be exactly what you’re in the mood for. There’s no guilt, no commitment and no risk of pregnancy or disease. Perfect, carefree phone sex fun doesn’t always happen right away. If you want a real connection and a phone “relationship” that builds over time then you should do a little research first. Finding a partner that shares your interests is the best way to insure that you aren’t wasting time and money trying girl after girl. An added bonus is that you’ll save additional time because you won’t have to talk about your likes and dislikes over and over. That doesn’t mean that each conversation can’t be about a different fantasy but it does mean that you won’t have to worry that your partner will introduce something that totally turns you off right when things are getting good.
One question that constantly comes up: Is phone sex cheating? There are answers going both ways. I’ve received “dear jane” letters from guys that decided to stop calling because they’d started dating someone great and felt that talking to me was wrong now. I’ve also talked to guys that weren’t getting anything sexual (or intimate at all) from their wives/girlfriends and decided to call because they didn’t want to cheat. To them it wasn’t cheating since there was no physical contact and no real emotional obligation with me. I consider phone sex to be “audio porn”. It’s a kicked up masturbation aid and if you keep it mentally on the same level as your hidden video stash, then it’s no different than jerking over naked women in a Playboy. You never have to worry that the Playboy model or I will ever call with a pregnancy announcement or VD test results. lol
On the other hand… for the unattached, there is GFE (girlfriend experience) phone sex which can be incredible with the right person. It’s not something I advertise because I prefer it when those feelings develop as a happy accident. I do get those “virtual boyfriend” feelings of my own when I’m talking to someone that has so much in common with me (sexually and non). It’s fun and rewarding and emotionally safe (while being exciting) because the phone and distance are between us. I’m a horrible commitment-phobe in real life anyway. lol AND my rent gets paid. Have I mentioned before how much I love my job? ;)
If GFE phone sex is exactly what you’re looking for, I totally recommend my friend Kylie at kyliecallme.com. She is just the natural girlfriend type. She’s real, open, easy going and incredibly attentive.

7 Comments »

Comment by Lady Johanna

August 18, 2008 @ 2:25 am

One of the things I find a bit frustrating as a provider of phone domination is being able to give the caller a really good call when I don’t know him yet. Everyone has different fantasies, what turns one guy on, turns the next off. I can’t assume what will get you hot, you pretty much have to tell me what your buttons are. So there’s always a bit of “getting to know you” phase before I can do much direct domination.

I agree the thing for callers to do is to build ongoing relationships with providers that get to know them. We’re not talking about fidelity here, I don’t have some notion my callers shouldn’t call other providers. It’s simply a matter of how much better I can be when I know you; the more I know, the better time you will have with me.

Guys, you want to get your money’s worth - find someone you click with and call her back often!

Personally, when I am sitting waiting for a call, I’m often thinking about one of my regulars, considering his hot buttons in my mind, figuring out what will *really* blows his mind next time he calls. When you call someone regularly, you don’t just get the time on the phone with them, but the creativity and imagination they invest thinking about you when they’re not on the phone.

Comment by Abby

August 20, 2008 @ 8:05 pm

I think building a phone sex domination relationship may be even more important because many submissives are soooo particular. lol
I agree with you completely regarding “fidelity”. I’ve never assumed that my callers are calling only me. Some of them even like to talk about their other calls including ideas they liked or didn’t like.

Comment by Sex Novel

September 5, 2008 @ 3:54 am

Yes, I agree that phone sex is a substitute of safe sex. But, I guess it’s ridiculous that you are always having phone sex just to to be safe. I guess there are alternative ways to be safe, like sex toys, it’s very safe using sex toys,right.

Comment by Abby

September 5, 2008 @ 3:09 pm

Always having phone sex just to be safe? Um… okay. I let your odd comment through just so I could say: Phone sex and sex toys go hand in hand which is why I promote my own sex toy shop, SinfulPlaythings. lol

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Comment by Lady Johanna

October 27, 2008 @ 10:19 pm

I don’t think of phone sex as a “lesser” alternative to physical sex to be engaged in just for safety.

Phone sex is a good thing in itself.

For one thing, you can “do” things in phone sex that you *can’t* do for real, either for practical or ethical reasons. I can’t *really* shrink a man down to a few inches tall; I *won’t* really kidnap and torture someone. But these can be fun stories to play with.

Phone sex is fantasy sex, and fantasy can be very compelling and an awful lot of fun. The main sex organ is the brain, not the genitals.

Phone sex is more fun than fantasizing by yourself because you have another brain to play with. Two people can feed off each other and make very exciting stories that neither would’ve come up with alone.

Comment by Lingerie

November 8, 2008 @ 1:40 am

I always wondered while up late at night seeing the call sex lines on tv why in the world anyone would call those with all the video and sex sites on the internet. You have laid it all out for me. Seems its not really about the sex and can offer something that pictures or videos on the internet can’t.. A real personal experience. I may even consider calling a few times.

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