Comments on: Phone Sex Equals Safe Sex

By: Lingerie

Lingerie — Sat, 08 Nov 2008 07:40:58 +0000

I always wondered while up late at night seeing the call sex lines on tv why in the world anyone would call those with all the video and sex sites on the internet. You have laid it all out for me. Seems its not really about the sex and can offer something that pictures or videos on the internet can’t.. A real personal experience. I may even consider calling a few times.

By: Lady Johanna

Lady Johanna — Tue, 28 Oct 2008 04:19:52 +0000

I don’t think of phone sex as a “lesser” alternative to physical sex to be engaged in just for safety.

Phone sex is a good thing in itself.

For one thing, you can “do” things in phone sex that you *can’t* do for real, either for practical or ethical reasons. I can’t *really* shrink a man down to a few inches tall; I *won’t* really kidnap and torture someone. But these can be fun stories to play with.

Phone sex is fantasy sex, and fantasy can be very compelling and an awful lot of fun. The main sex organ is the brain, not the genitals.

Phone sex is more fun than fantasizing by yourself because you have another brain to play with. Two people can feed off each other and make very exciting stories that neither would’ve come up with alone.

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By: Abby

Abby — Fri, 05 Sep 2008 21:09:51 +0000

Always having phone sex just to be safe? Um… okay. I let your odd comment through just so I could say: Phone sex and sex toys go hand in hand which is why I promote my own sex toy shop, SinfulPlaythings. lol

By: Sex Novel

Sex Novel — Fri, 05 Sep 2008 09:54:20 +0000

Yes, I agree that phone sex is a substitute of safe sex. But, I guess it’s ridiculous that you are always having phone sex just to to be safe. I guess there are alternative ways to be safe, like sex toys, it’s very safe using sex toys,right.

By: Abby

Abby — Thu, 21 Aug 2008 02:05:25 +0000

I think building a phone sex domination relationship may be even more important because many submissives are soooo particular. lol
I agree with you completely regarding “fidelity”. I’ve never assumed that my callers are calling only me. Some of them even like to talk about their other calls including ideas they liked or didn’t like.

By: Lady Johanna

Lady Johanna — Mon, 18 Aug 2008 08:25:31 +0000

One of the things I find a bit frustrating as a provider of phone domination is being able to give the caller a really good call when I don’t know him yet. Everyone has different fantasies, what turns one guy on, turns the next off. I can’t assume what will get you hot, you pretty much have to tell me what your buttons are. So there’s always a bit of “getting to know you” phase before I can do much direct domination.

I agree the thing for callers to do is to build ongoing relationships with providers that get to know them. We’re not talking about fidelity here, I don’t have some notion my callers shouldn’t call other providers. It’s simply a matter of how much better I can be when I know you; the more I know, the better time you will have with me.

Guys, you want to get your money’s worth - find someone you click with and call her back often!

Personally, when I am sitting waiting for a call, I’m often thinking about one of my regulars, considering his hot buttons in my mind, figuring out what will *really* blows his mind next time he calls. When you call someone regularly, you don’t just get the time on the phone with them, but the creativity and imagination they invest thinking about you when they’re not on the phone.